I am writing because my husband recently ran out on my two children and me. I have been battling cancer for 4 years now and last year after finding out I was going to go thru this again he married me before my surgery. But I have found out that he was looking up gay/lesbian pornographic sites the day after we were married while I was in the hospital from surgery and we did not know if I would live or die. He has also been cheating on me with a girl from work since Dec. He grew up in Utah and is a Mormon as are his family. I never realized that he could be so cruel. His name is Clinton J. Carroll and I am going to have to sue him for divorce based on Adultry. When I spoke with him about this he claims that the pornography is an addiction and that he did not do anything with Heather Hayes when she spent the night in his hotel room. How do I recover from this. Don't his parents Betty and Gary think that maybe he should be sorry for his actions. Granted, I did pull away from him some after finding out about his relationship with another woman because he made me feel less than beautiful or important. He also mistreated my children by screaming at them for any little thing that they did that did not please him. But his family does not believe this. Nor do they believe when I tell them that he was selfish by asking for sex from me on days that I had just had chemotherapy and was sick beyond belief. I realize there is no way to go back and fix this but he has devastated me and my children's life. He not only broke my heart but also has made me feel unlovable. As we speak here he is in a motel with his new girlfriend Heather Hayes and is committing adultry. What is the church's stand on this? Can his parents be made to help him stop this disasterous lifestyle for his own good even though it is too late for us?
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