Get off your rocker dodge and realize something first of all true Christians and people of other faiths are in general very tolerant, knowing they too were once seep in sin. However the right wing groups that go by religious law in the since of forcing all to think as they do are the ones that there is a problem. Nazism, communism(atheist) and so forth. Chrstians look at each person being a person that can be saved. For Christ came to redeem those that were lost. Not those that were saved. To seek those that were not His own. Now with this said. Dodge ministers and teachers of faith usually in general are tolerant people, however that are groups that form that are not of God, but think of themselves as God and when they rise up for example David Koresh or Jim Jones. then beware. It is dangerous. Now I am sorry about this fact, but it is true, their goaled is to control people. Most religious people I know do not control people. A cult or occult is one that is controlling. What happens in a normal church is people attend two to three times a week unless of work and then they attend or try and attend at least one service. Usually, no one calls you unless it is a small church to check on your well being unless you are old, disables or are known to be sick. Usually the pastor has time for other people in the community to at least make contacts. However some weeks it all about studying and preparing for weeks ahead when one has no time to study because of weddings, funerals, hospital calls and so forth. Usually a pastor never sees a soul unless they are busy witnessing.
So what is this idea that you think you have to have control over others especially on this board. See some people have oodles of time and others have no time. Meaning to even get a clergy on this board would be amazing for any length of time. So if you experience a church with control you are in the wrong church. A church is there to help you, not to controll you.