I will answer you here AF. I was a Christian when I got married. As a Christian, I never had sex outside of marriage. I was not always a Christian however, and the answer to your question is no. Had I become a Christian as a child, I would like to think I would have done the right thing, but who knows. Those hormones and peer pressure and the barrage of sexual imagry in the media etc... may well have gotten the best of me. I had no direction or guidance from my parents in any of this unfortunately, and I was quite ignorant of what the Bible had to say. I was really talking theory in saying what would work best comparing it to what you had said. I don't yet see it as possible though given what I said about people in this world. Perhaps a combination of both perspectives might be practical and possible.