I know the vicious comments I myself know of a similar issues, I will let you know of a Brother I met what he decided to do was ..
Move to another State. Really you will find its hard to do, I moved several times. I now have a home and now happy, I switched churches, and still they are still trying to do stuff.
I was waiting for them to pull that on the next victim, I found best thing is to walk away.
Use some constructive planning, I am changing my whole thing I am a very busy person myself, I dont keep contact with this other person, and if the opportunity arises to move again sure I'll move.
as the Training in AA said " Sometimes its Best to detach yourself from..."
also a training tape You CAN LIVE WITHOUT ....
I have also evolved as a Independent Rouge I hold no membership or affiliation, I burned my membership card ( never had one to begin with but makes logical sense ) Turned my back on my enemies and wish them a long journey and a happy life.